After the first year of marriage we had our first child and we both agreed I would stay home to raise our child. Walking away from my career of 16 years was difficult however I was looking forward to the life ahead of me being a mother. After our daughter was born, it wasn't long before my husband started to acting different. He would go out more frequently and leave me & the baby for other events any chance he had. He even took a trip to Hawaii by himself to get away. At the same time, my husband became more and more controlling, putting me down as a worthless person and a horrible mother.